Seven Habits of Highly Effective People - by Steven Covey

Habit 1:

Be Proactive

Take responsibility for your life. 

Habit 2:

Begin with the End in Mind

Define your mission and goals in life. 

Habit 3:

Put First Things First

Prioritise, and do the most important things first. 

Habit 4:

Think Win-Win

Have an everyone-can-win attitude. 

Habit 5:

Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood

Listen to people sincerely.

Habit 6:

Synergize

Work together to achieve more.

Habit 7:

Sharpen the Saw

Renew yourself regularly.

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Habit 8:

Find your voice and inspire others to find theirs.

To deal with people in a way that will communicate to them their worth and potential so clearly they will come to see it in themselves.